Do we have to be martyrs to love people well?

Christian love is—no joke!—extremely good news.

  • Have you ever wondered why "loving like Jesus" makes you feel bitter, angry or resentful?
  • Do you feel like a better Christian would enjoy thriving relationships?
  • Have you tried to love people well...only to feel used?


I’d love to help you:

  • Admit the resentment, frustration and pain you’re feeling in a key relationship.
  • Recognize the ways your relationship is chipping away at yours’ and others’ dignity.
  • Believe that loving dignity is possible in every circumstance.
  • Take a practical, safe, and kind step towards a hopeful future.


I’ll talk about my own struggles with candor, point out Christian culture’s occasional tone-deafness about emotional and relational health and—heads up—drop a cuss word once or twice.

Work your way through this four-hour self-paced course 10-15 minutes at a time.

 The downloadable workbook will help you take notes during the sessions and journal your thoughts afterwards, and provides suggested resource lists for further study and help.

Commit to love.

Sign up for the course and begin a gentle, healing journey towards love that affirms your dignity.

Pre-order for $99!
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Are you fully alive in your relationships?

What people are saying about the course:

"An all too rare talent"

Jacqueline

Before I knew it, I was looking at myself and—without shame—understanding my part [in healing my relationships]. Heather is very gentle and hit the spot on all of her suggestions. She has an all too rare talent.

"Makes these hard topics easier"

Jenifer

I so appreciate Heather’s ability to communicate about such challenging ideas in such a grace-filled way, and her willingness to share [so vulnerably]. She is a natural speaker and has a gentleness and generosity that makes these hard topics easier to examine and reflect on.

"So many tools"

Robert

The course has been awesome!!! Heather did a great job leading and giving us so many tools to help make changes.

It's time to live with love

You can flourish in your relationships. I pinky-swear.

Join us for $99!

Check Out the Course Curriculum

Four weeks to a dignified approach to love

  • 1

    Session 1: Love is Actually Good News

    • Session 1.1: Overview and About Me

    • Session 1.2: Love Means Mutual Flourishing

    • Session 1.3: (But Flourishing May Not Look Like We Expect)

    • Session 1.4: Love is Deep Peace and Safety; Love Is Honest and Vulnerable

    • Session 1.5: Burning Relationship Questions
  • 2

    Session 2: Name Not-Loving

    • Session 2.1: Overview and About Me

    • Session 2.2: Abuse Is a Spectrum, Not a Sicko in an Alleyway

    • Session 2.3: Recognizing Past Abuse; From Enabling to Naming

    • Session 2.4: From Shame to Radical Acceptance; From Punishment to Dignity

    • Session 2.5: Burning Relationship Questions
  • 3

    Session 3: Tell Kinder Stories

    • Session 3.1: My Story

    • Session 3.2: Our Stories Tell Us; Noticing Unhealthy Stories

    • Session 3.3: Kind Stories Are Ninja Moves

    • Session 3.4: Practicing Kind Stories; Telling Kind Stories About Ourselves

    • Session 3.5: Your Burning Questions
  • 4

    Session 4: Take Intentional Action

    • Session 4.1: About Me

    • Session 4.2: Care for Yourself

    • Session 4.3: Stay Safe; Get Professional Help

    • Session 4.4: Read a Book (or other resource)

    • Session 4.5: Have a Kind Conversation

    • Session 4.6: Your Burning Questions

Your purchase gives you a year's access

Take your time and go at your own pace

We're all a bit slammed after a plague year. Though I've designed the course to fit in a month, you won't lose access after 30 days. Take until June 2022 to enjoy the course content, watch and rewatch the videos, and meditate on the questions it raises.
I want the course for a full year!